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Name: krysmel •
Title: Is it alright to not be happy for my friends? •
Date posted: 05/07/08 17:23
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Q: Right now my Husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for a year. It's really hard for me to be happy for my friends that are pregnant. Right now I have 4 friend that are due in the summer and one due in September. The one Due in September is giving the baby up for adoption and when I found out I was so hurt and mad that she got pregnant from a one night stand and I have been trying for sooooo long. Two of my friends are family friends with my Husbands side and my mother in-law makes her self very clear that she wants a Grandchild and always aims remake at me. I have let the table before because the comments hurt me so bad and my Husband says nothing.
What do I do someone please help me.
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Name: scoobie •
Date: 06/29/08 13:10 |
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A: Hi there, I know how you feel, my best friend is due in 7wks and it is hard to be happy for them but at the end of the day they are your friends and I would expect them to support me if it was the other way round. Myself and my husband would love a family but unfortunately through cancer has left my husband infertile, we have tried IVF and are going through the process of adoption which is also looking unlikely as they've said we are overweight. It must be frustrating with your friend giving the baby up and i'm sure it can't be an easy decision for her. I'm not sure what help I could offer but I do know it's not worth pushing your friends away through your own envy. Good luck with everything.
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